OK, I didn't read the entire thread but seems a lot of talk about sex, and unless I'm missing something, not sure why that's even a topic if you're in this situation. When a woman emotionally detaches from a man, she no longer wants to be intimate with him. Sure, she might "put up" with it, but she won't enjoy it. Women need the emotional connection and then the physical follows. If your W is involved with another man, either as an EA or a PA, no way are you going to be able to rebuild that right now. Seems like we're putting the cart ahead of the horse, but again, I'm not completely up to date. I'll try to read through later and comment again.

Also, 4.5 miles in 30 minutes - very impressive!


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.