That schedule of 'things' between now and Christmas seems like control to me. So, she's happy, how about IS?

OK, sex. Well, how do you change it? Me and NDY were discussing this last week. How many women have seen '50 shades' and think their sex life should be like that? I've watched the film and I was bored, to be honest. I just don't see any intimacy in it, just plain old fashioned manipulation. The problem is that she has probably bought in to all that and it's a fantasy. I don't think this is the place to discuss techniques, but do you use your tongue? Just a hint.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015