You did well, all you can do is be a father at this point. I'll tell you, this situation helped be become a better dad... My S was 6 when it all started, I was very careful in what he was exposed to, what he seen and heard .... W was not as careful as she was in the fog and was quite selfish .... Again her circus and her monkeys ... Through it all S and I did so many cool things and formed an even tighter bond for which I'm grateful, I was an "ok" dad before.... Now I'm proud of the father I've become
As far as your W.... Guilt will be driving her moods a bit, along with anger and confusion as she sorts things out. Most likely you are still viewed as the obstacle between her and happiness in her eyes.... Accept that's the way it is... Accept its her perception and out of your control... You keep working on you and let her go for now ... As hard as it is ... It's the hand you were felt and it's the only way to play it
