RAI, you are spot on. As i read your responses and reflect on my post, I clearly am focused on the past and "what-if" scenarios.

I will continue to work on living in the present and focusing on me.

The list of goals and achievements is a great idea. I am going to work on that and post it later.

Me-29 W-29
M 5 years (2010)
Kids S-6 S-5
W Ring Off: 9/28/15
Filed: 10/12/15