I have been in a relationship for about two years. Me and my beau live in separate households, and don't get to spend that much time together alone. He has two kids as well as do I. So me and my Beau are planning a nice week long getaway
Oh, this explains so much. Let me guess:
- Ex is burned up that you didn't sit around pining waiting for him to decide you were an acceptable Plan B - Ex didn't want you but he SURE doesn't want somebody else to have you! - Now that ex's relationship with OW is over, he's painting it to the boys that you two would be reconciled if only it weren't for your new man - The boys (even if they like new man) see him as an obstacle to their parents being reunited - The boys see ex as the "available" parent now that he's broken up with OW
All so very predictable.
I'm glad you have someone new in your life to help you through this time. You deserve it!!!