I saw several instances where you said you would go to lunch with her or dinner with kids. Was this initiated by you? What effects did it have on how you felt about things?

Did you text her often? Or was it all her?

I only ask because my ww has rarely texted And never asked to spend time together in almost 2 months.

I may be reading it wrong and you seem to have moved on, but I see hope in your wife by the way you describe your interactions. I wish I had the chance to even make the decision of denying her.

When we do talk she smiles a lot we laugh. But it always ends with her crying over why I couldn't change sooner or me not giving enough of myself to her.


M: 29 W: 28
D: 8 S:1
M: 10 T: 11
BD1: 8//15 (physically separate)
Back together: 4/16
BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18)
Here we are again.