Hi, I'm hurting right now. Yesterday was my son's birthday. We were sitting around the table, sang and had cake. Really nice moment. My wife was taking photos with her phone. She takes a good one and shows my son and daughter and does not even think to show me. Later he's opening his cards and gifts. My wife always buys the cards and signs them for both of us. My son reads our card and thanks his mother for the message. He says nothing to me. I check the card later and she left me off the card. These two events have left me feeling very hurt.

If this is how she wants to treat me? What does it say about our marriage? I am so hurt and despondent about our marriage. Do you wise people think I should tell how hurt she made me feel about the photo and the card? Should I be silent? I don't know what to do.



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