azzork this is where my 180 would come in. Ive always been relaxed about everything. I have always let her do what ever she wants and gets away with it. This time I am new man, someone that will not take that, someone who will watch out for the best interest of my daughters. I know that she is thinking , he wont get a lawyer , he wont fight for the girls. He would never do that to me , he loves me too much, i have him in my hands. But is no longer like that. I dont want her back unless she gets help, just like i got help. I am a new man. A stronger man , a man that doesnt take her insults anymore and doesnt let himself get manipulated like she always has this whole relationship.