I need advise on what should i do. Should i go 50/50 custody or should i go for 100% custody. The reason being is that there has been several situation where she is emotionally and psychologically damaging my daughters. And maybe this is the only way for her to realize? When i judge decides that is best for the girls to be with me. Ill give yall examples. She disciplines my 3 yr old a lot. she smacks her if she misbehaves and if she cries she will count to 3 , and if after 3 she is still crying then she will smack her again and put in her the closet with the lights off. If my little girl throws a tantrum she will smack her her block her mouth with her own hand in order to be quiet , while she keeps smacking her. If for some reason she doesnt stop crying then she will take to the shower with cold water in order for to calm down. If she were to cry about anything maybe something random ( you know kids tend to do that) then she will tell her to be quiet or she will give her a reason to cry, meaning that she will get up and smack her in order for her to have a reason to cry. I told yall about the incident where she decided to get off the truck while I was driving, and didnt care that we put our daughters safety in danger while i followed her on the side of the road. There was one time when the baby 9months fell of the bed because she felt asleep and the baby crawled and fell of the bed hitting her little head. Every time i would intervene she would tell me not to get involved since i dont know how to discipline them and i only show the affection like if they would understand. Last she didnt take about my daughters when she decided to live in a shelter. She basically used them in order to receive all those government benefits. If it wasnt for them , they would have probably told her to take a hike. She didnt care that i havent seen my daughters for over 5 weeks because she is only worried about herself right now. I could have gladly left the house and left her with everything. She is showing them though love just like she was shown when she was a child. I dont like that.
