Originally Posted By: dday
Getting back together is what I want, most days. Lately I have had days that I am not sure, but that may be a defense mechanism.


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How often do you think about whether you would want to be president?
How often do you think about whether you would move to Paris?

Probably not very often, Im guessing

These things arent on the table right now for you, so they dont matter. Nobody is offering you a spot in the primaries, right?

My point is that spending time worrying about this right now is a total waste. She doesnt want to reconcile right now, so what point is there in thinking about whether you do? By the time she would be ready, you will both be different people anyway. So deciding you want to R with her today doesnt really mean anything.