I knew that email would bring things to a head. At that point she had withdrawn from me physically almost completely, nothing but a hello/goodbye kiss. I was desparate but still unable to approach her with a one-on-one convo.
In hindsight I should have silently gone back to DBing, this forum etc and worked on our marriage alone. The hole i'm in might not be so deep.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16