The convo was all nice and friendly as usual and after initially asking about my day (i'm working from home today and tomorrow) she got down to the real task of scheduling the kids evening activities with hers and mine. S8 has a swimming lesson which she will take him to . S11 has a drums lesson from which I will bring him home. He then goes to scouts with his friend so I have to cook for myself and 3 boys . W is off to school with 3 mums for a 'curry' night.
Then she gave me a run through of all her and the kids activities between now and Xmas some of which I knew about and some of which were new. I gave her some of my work and leisure dates as well. We co-ordinated diaries until Xmas!
She seems happy to live the way we are until at least the New Year - co parenting in the same house.
Shes keeping busy with her social life: The next 4 weekends: - going to her friends with the kids for the weekend - going to a 50th party - going for a day to Manchester - Les Mills Gym Day with gym girlfriends - going away for Spa weekend with sister
The kids have Halloween and Fireworks day and other stuff planned next week when they are off school plus 2 kids parties and Xmas activities.
She hasn't excluded me from any of the kids activities except this weekend when she is going to an old friends house for the weekend Sat- Mon.
She has an Amicable in house separation all sorted - how do I change this dynamic!!!
Last edited by isittoolate; 10/22/1511:29 AM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
