I'm not really sure about letting go of that belief she will see the reality of her decision. When talking with my coach he told me to look for the positives and keep hope but to make sure I'm not focusing on it. To really look at my life and what I need to be doing. I think it was more so that I don't completely shut that door which is what most people do after being in this sitch for several months. So maybe its don't expect she will change or see the reality of her mistake but keep a sliver of hope she does. Coach also told me disappointment is fine and can be dealt with later and to not ignore what is happening in the sitch because you don't that disappointment. I've noticed before the advice with forums and coaches do conflict at times and maybe the forum advice is geared more toward saving the individual and reducing that pain where the coach is the M.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
