so what of today?

I had an IC session this morning, she can see no progress from last week, which is about right.

Everything is about the kids and the scheduling and not about the sitch.

So what do I do?


Maintain the status quo whilst working on me? and hope for what? That time and a little space will heal things a little? So that when the next R talk comes around as inevitably it must, that it will be harder for her to say we must separate?

Or?

Go a bit( or a lot) more cold? distance myself more? Dont make conversation, dont watch tv together, dont eat together, get out the house in the evening?


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16