Transformation, transition, nor change equal failure Thriver. They just don't. I'm sure it feels that way, but it's simply not truth.

You are not responsible for the actions of another person ever, therefor a relationship will always be out of our controls. The perfect spouse can still get left. The law of impermanence guarantees this and more.

I feel for you, with the exact same feeling, and will face the same on the day that my D is final. All we can do is continue to feel the feelings, honor them, let them pass, and see what's on the other side of them.

Sending you some serious strength and love on this tough night.

PP

M 39 W 36
T5 M3
BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day
Served 9/15
D finalized 6/17