Triangulation (Differences between WAHs and WAWs 4

[JulieH]

So with triangulation, a person is lying with a conscious motivation to manipulate?

I don't do that. I do talk about my relationship when I am frusturated though. When I was reading about it, I got a sick feeling that my behaviors have been abusive. Dysfunctional definatly but I would never ever want to be abusive to someone. Sometimes when I read the complaints that posters have of their spouses I recognize that I am guilty of those behaviors.