Sorry didn't edit above post in time...

I guess I am concerned because I have questioned his actions with other people and I am wondering if I am being manipulative, and abusive. I felt like I was doing it because often times I don't trust my own interpretations and because we are so at odds I can't discuss any thing with him. I didn't realize that I am bringing others into it.

Just realizing that Involving friends/family was not a good thing and was emotionally driven. At the same time, I felt like I needed support and help.


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015