I guess I am concerned because I have questioned his actions with other people and I am wondering if I am being manipulative, and abusive. I felt like I was doing it because often times I don't trust my own interpretations and because we are so at odds I can't discuss any thing with him. I didn't realize that I am bringing others into it.
Just realizing that Involving friends/family was not a good thing and was emotionally driven. At the same time, I felt like I needed support and help.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015