Triangulation (Differences between WAHs and WAWs 4

[JulieH]

i have just read about the concept of triangulation, based on some experiences of another poster.
In my case, I have been complaining about husband not paying CS to some family members. . I realize I come off as being a victim this way, and he comes off looking pretty bad. I feel like I am doing it because I just don't know what to do, and in one case because I felt like I was being being criticized for