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[Zues126]

This card would impact my decision making process about where I lived less than how many annual alligator attacks were in each zip code.

Who knows why he picked that card? Maybe he felt romantic and wanted to cake eat having a loving wife for a moment. Maybe he wanted to remember how it felt. Maybe he likes feeling needed and like a good guy. Or feeling desired so he wants to keep you on the line. Maybe he picked out the wrong one (you get my meaning).

This talk about not R and not D would mean equally little to me. A marriage is a commitment. Without the commitment there isn't a marriage. If I was a parachute and I told you I wasn't going to open but I didn't want to not open, I just wanted to be alone in my backpack right now...would you jump from 20K feet?

Pass. You're not M. Move on and take care of your life. Frankly moving farther would probably give you the best mathmatical chance of 'waking him up' from his fog, but that's such a waste of time to think about that I'd just move where I wanted...which would probably COINCIDENTALLY be far the heck of this man.

PS- I think it's not a nice gesture...I personally think it's pretty crappy. You're grieving the loss of a marriage that HE ended and he's giving you false hope. He might has well of abducted one of your children and then while you were in grieving hinted that they might be alive...oh wait, just kidding...or am I? That's not cute or charming. That's sadistic, self serving, and disgusting...but that's just me