You could almost argue that the divorce rate is a good thing. I don't buy it, but it's not black and white
Zues, you should let that sense of humor out more often. I like it.
Photo, several months ago when I was still struggling with "D" being emblazoned like the scarlett letter on my shirt, my IC commented that when some of my friends found out, they might be envious. That was incomprehensible to me, I was sure I'd be shamed and outcast when people found out my M had failed. And then people started talking to me, and it was incredible what's inside marriages that looked happy from the outside. In a way, it make me think my STBX is an even bigger idiot than I thought, because our M was better than those. And in a way, it made me a scared that I could ever find something great for my future. I really don't know anymore, but all I can do at this point is move forward.
