Good deal! Working on yourself and actually improving, is the place to start. Nothing else will work until then. Oh, and the next thing most LBS will say is, "How can I show her my changes?" Don't worry about it. Just make the changes stick, first. And I mean changes in yourself as a man.
You can do this.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
