You W is wayward. If you think of her in the same context as you always have, and try to respond to her as you always have.....there is a larger chance of getting D. You cannot deal with this situation the same as other problems...or treat her as though she is wanting to save the M. Her mindset has completely changed. This is not the girl you married.

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I'm fairly sure she wouldn't disagree with how she's been treating me recently.


For the WW, it isn't about "honesty". Not her honesty, anyway. It's about justification! She will find everything to justify her reasons for feeling like she does. She will justify her reason for divorcing you.

Have either of you ever been involved with another person, before this time?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!