I will keep working on myself. This weekend i am actually attending a mens retreat, that should be fun. I am still determined to get my father rights through my L. I will keep working on myself and she will have to see my new me, someone that is more positive, someone that is a spiritual leader someone that does everything for his girls. I cant make her see it, she will have to do that on her own. She can bring the divorce herself because i wont go out that easy.