have i been making mistakes too long part 7

[tkdmme]

I have been thinking more about my IC telling me to start the legal process. I am not sure if this is good advise. He says that once the legal paper work starts showing up, it may wake her up to the reality of D. I think he means well but I think I agree with Huddy that it may be time to look far another counselor.

She has not done anything to pursue the D or a reconciliation. I think I may go back to basic DB.

Any thoughts?