confused newbie 5

[dday]

Ok guys, you are probably all correct. I will mellow out and do nothing for a while. I am trying to be dark/gray because W wants me to be a friend. I won't settle for that.

Now, when I do have to talk with her, I feel like I am cold and short. I don't think that is the best way to appear, but I don't know how to draw the line and not be friends. It's all or nothing for me on this. She is my W or someone I do business with. Those are the options to me.