Im doing pretty good with the drinking. I have not completely stopped but it has not been a problem for a while. I still have a few drinks when I go out to the tavern to play piano and I have a few with friends on the weekend. Drinking was never a real issue with me until BD. At that point I went a little crazy with it.
My church is Presbyterian. Similar to Catholic in terms of drinking but obviously drug use is frowned upon.
I have an appointment to see the minister next week. I want to know, as a Christian, what I am required to do in my situation. My W knows about this meeting and thinks im trying to use religion as a way to manipulate her. Im not sure how this meeting will go but I will post the results when it is over.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16