Just blatant rope pulling, manipulation and guilt trips being blasted on you here bud. As Sotto says, you need to worry about you and your kids right now.
I'd stop going to that IC by the way. You're a few months in and there is no sign of a D anywhere to be seen. Give him a miss, I don't think he's helping.
How's your drinking going? I'm not religious, but what does your church say about using drugs and alcohol? Is your minister any help?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015