Thank You Painter. Good info. STBXW texts S7 teacher on her own and D12 keeps her mom informed on her school. I answer any texts that have to do with the kids, but also don't cover for her. She is still good at not telling the truth to kids and I can tell when things sound fishy. But I try to stay out of it. Kids counselor is very involved with the situation and my attorney is using her judgement on how we proceed. The kids have told counselor about their last visit with their mom and she is very concerned. STBXW employment and living situation is being addressed by my attorney. STBXW will have to change a few things before visitation will be allowed out of state.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"