Tinydoc's first post, 5 months in.

[TDball]

I can't tell if my last post got mistakenly deleted or still requires approval.


I'm not sure what to do about our dog. He is ignoring all attempts to discuss it. He blocked my texts, won't answer the phone and won't respond to email.


There is so much going though my head.

-He thinks I have everything, and the dog is all he has. He mentioned this a few weeks ago. This is crazy. He wanted the divorce. He has the girlfriend. Part of me wonders if this means his life feels emptier now, but I doubt it, and shouldn't mind read.

-He insisted that I was using the dog as leverage. Leverage for what? I don't understand. The only "asset" we have is the dog, it's not like I'm trying to get anything from him. I dont even want her full time. He also says that I can't see the dog anymore because last week he insists that I said I wouldn't give her back until he agreed to joint ownership. This reasoning is so convoluted, since I have told him many times I didn't say this, and he currently has the dog. I can't figure out why he is insisting that was "the last straw"

-He said that sharing her is preventing us from getting on with our lives. Except supposedly he has already moved on. So he's concerned that I won't move on? I don't think it's fair to prevent me from seeing the dog out of concern for my emotional well being.

I just feel so powerless.