If only she would see that the best for the children is to be united. The best for the children is for both of us to fight for this family because our daughters deserve it.
Sigh. Nope. It doesnt work like that.
Thats what you think is best. She feels harassed, smothered, neglected...why would she come back to that? You think holding her prisoner in a relationship she doesnt want ill lead her to be a better mother?
Originally Posted By: angel r
Our daughters deserve to have a family me and her never had as children.
I completely agree.
What steps are you taking within yourself to foster that type of environment? What changes are you making within yourself that would interest and reattract your W?
Originally Posted By: angel r
When i would write her i never wrote to her, but i wrote about the marriage. The marriage is not about her, the marriage is about me , her , my 2 daughters and the Lord. I wish she would understand that, but i didnt reply to her txt. I just ignored it. I mean she ignored me for 4 weeks.
You are right, a marriage is not about just one person. It is about your family. But you are so focused on trying to get HER to see YOUR way that you arent willing to look at things from her point of view. It is clear that your opinion is "Im right and you are wrong". Until you can learn to see things from the other side, there is NO CHANCE that she will ever consider coming back.
LEAVE. HER. ALONE.
Not only physically. But mentally.
Stop focusing so much on her. Focus on you.
What can you do to make sure your next relationship succeeds? What can you do to prepare yourself for that?
