OTW, I hate to hear anyone else is in a similar sitch. It is nice to know there are others who can be empathetic and we can support each other. I played football in college and several years after college a buddy talked me into playing a couple seasons of rugby. I really enjoyed it but it just takes so long for my body to heal anymore. I registered for a 35+ team but haven't been able to get legs ready to sprint yet. Pushing too hard too fast.
You should get back out and play. From what I understand about DBing, and please someone correct if I'm wrong, but it's about taking care of yourself.....rediscovering who you are....doing things you enjoy....those are probably the things that attracted her to you in the first place.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place