[quote=gnicks9]thank you so much for all the insight and help. I can definitely see my thoughts of punishing her. That's a terrible attitude. I need to keep working on me and not be afraid to reassure her slightly when she brings up OW.
Headed to court now. Thanks all
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It's not about reassurance ... You do not want her to think you are her puppet... It's more about setting a tone that you will conduct yourself to a standard you have set for yourself and you will not settle for less....not from yourself, her, or anyone else in your life ... Start being the captain of your ship instead of a spectator
Cali, this is great! Thank you so much. It's a very different way to look at it and makes perfect sense. And it's the way I feel about it. I'm not going to accept less from myself, her or anyone else. I deserve better
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
