I recently asked STBX to sort through some stuff he left in his closet. I told him that I didn't mind to store a few things for him, but if it was clothes he hadn't worn in a year, I was going to get rid of them. He sorted through about half of it, and I took it to Goodwill the next day. He still has some stuff to go through, I'll probably have to ask a few more times.
And I'm a little surprised at how long it's taking STBX to get his financial stuff into the L. He tried to throw me under the bus the other day for something he was supposed to send and didn't, and he still owes more information. If he doesn't get it in soon, we may not make our scheduled meetings. The last meeting is scheduled for November 17, exactly one year to the day that he moved out. I thought that was rather fitting.
You and MB and I are generally in the same place, it's nice to have you girls for support!
