I am not sure if I skipped the anger phase of just moved through it so quickly. I never remember except when I felt she was not treating the kids right being mad. I am looking at it more in the manner that I can't be mad about how she feels. I don't like it for me but it is how she feels.
Hey otw, I am speaking from experience...anger will squeek out. It is something you will have to feel to truly move forward. It is not something that we can suppress or not feel. It may not be ready to come out yet, but it likelybwill eventually.
There are others who have posted novels on feeling anger and the importance of it (so maybe do some searches)...when it comes, embrace it to move forward, it is part of healing.
