Things I can do in the evenings to make myself scarce without her getting offended that 'I am ignoring/blanking her'

Usually we would settle down in the evening (9pm-10:30) to watch a bit of TV: Our favourite shows have just started a new Series 'Walking Dead' and 'Homeland'- she will ask why I dont want to watch them. Of course, She might have watched them while I have been away these last 2 nights - possibly.

Anyway: I can read a book in the same room.
I can go do some weights.
I can sort through some admin stuff in the office.
I can practise Salsa in my bedroom - no music just watching vids

I dont watch to precipitate an R talk by my actions and words':

'Why dont you want to watch TV with me'
'TV isn't important to me right now'

seems the best answer

Sorry to bore you guys with the tedious details of my life

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16