A better nights sleep - so should be a better day.
I've been reading Sandi2 loss thread: about how a WW needs to feel real loss before they will move towards H.
As a result of these actions by the H, the WW experiences loss of the H's availability, his presence, his intimacy, his physical affection, his meaningful conversations/interactions, his attention & closeness, his acts of service, his words of love & affirmation, quality family time, and his financial assistance/support.
So for now I will not txt phone or email her. I will reduce acts of service I will make myself scarce after the kids are in bed - minimise my physical presence I will not initiate small talk but be engaging and polite if she initiates it. I will not give her words of affirmation - no saying she looks great in that dress/outfit - something I always did. I will turn my love to my kids. I will be a part of their bedtime routine. I will help with their homework. I will help with their post school activities.
Onwards and Upwards
Last edited by Cadet; 10/23/1504:56 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
