So I have accepted the move and separation is happening. I know this because she has boxes everywhere and although it sucked I am not that bad. I think maybe now the kids know it is easier on me somehow.
Anyway so I have accepted this step and decided I am feeling ok so why not be the nice person I know I am. I am pleasant around her and cooked dinner for everyone but I do not help with carrying boxes etc. I can see she is stressed tonight so I asked her if she is ok.
I think I need to take this answer I got seriously because it is only the second time since BD I saw her not charging toward what she wanted. Could also be nothing but moving stress. When I asked her she as answered I don't know under her breath. I said excuse me and she repeated then I said why what's up. And she quickly changed up and said nothing she is fine.
I don't want to look into anything too much but I haven't seen any attitude like this from her.
Any thoughts?


M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15