I find out what your legal rights are. Let her bring whatever she wants to you and you review if you don't think it is fair or what lawyer reccomends then you make some changes and try to work together. If it is not working then suggest lawyers become involved.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15