If/when she asks about mine, I'm thinking about saying something to this effect:
We spent most of the session discussing the past 8 months., and what I realized is that you've been treating me like absolute crap up to and including the way you left. Even after the horrible way you acted, I continued to be loving and caring, because that's what I think a husband is supposed to do. I was true to myself and I am proud of the way I acted.
You don't see anything wrong with what you said above, but are afraid to say the suggestion below?
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I like that idea of "something coming up", but I'll admit I'm afraid of what that may mean for our contact going forward.
I still have some time, so I'm going to mull it over.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
