This is too weird g. Our situations are similar to an extent and I also played rugby for 18 years. I started playing again a little also! I am hesitant about playing since I stopped about 2 years ago because I knew w was not happy about all the time away it took. I stopped because of that and old age but she thinks it was because of the latter only. I am not sure if it is a good or bad thing to do but wth her moving in days I guess it makes no difference right now.
Just got home and there are packed boxes everywhere. Not easy to see

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15