Originally Posted By: Thornton
Ok, let me ask you this... what can you do that would be a 180 from poker? What can you do besides poker that will make her wonder about you?

Golf? A men's group? Church? Scuba diving lessons? Race car driving school? Business meet ups? Mountain climbing? Gym? Volunteering? Running? Habitat for Humanity? Organizing a food drive (the holidays are right around the corner)? A father/son retreat? Daddy/daughter date night?


These are great activities. I already go to church, 2 men's groups from the church ( she doesn't know about the 2nd one yet. Just started last week), Gym 4-5x week, Daddy/Daughter date night about once a week. However, race car driving sounds fun. I've also looked into playing rugby again. Starting training for it and hurt myself. I may be ready to play again soon. Maybe I'll go golfing this weekend.

I think I have really made an effort to not be sitting around the house with her. She tells me over and over again that she doesn't want me there anyway. It's weird. She again said " and hopefully you won't come back" but then she's asking me where I'm going.

should I be making an effort to not hang out with her at the house. I really don't want to hang out with her.


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place