Congrats on the job offer Sunny, hopefully it's a small bright spot in an otherwise difficult time in your life. Sounds like your H doesn't know which way is up right now and is just floundering around.
You on the other hand are doing extremely well in the hardest of circumstances. Despite the pain of the situation, that's something you can hang your hat on.
Hug, PP
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