confused newbie 5

[dday]

So I did some checking, and there is no court date on file for my D. Supposed to be after 60 days, more or less, and November 1 should be it. I'm not sure what the hold up is. Could be backlogged or maybe she isn't sure or ?

I do not want a D, but if it's going to happen, I want it done and over so I can get on with my life. It's so hard to be in limbo. Should I ask about it and push it along, or let it be? I am paying 1/2 of the mortgage until final. She has to buy me out when it's final. So there are many reasons for her financially to postpone it.