Ok, let me ask you this... what can you do that would be a 180 from poker? What can you do besides poker that will make her wonder about you?
Golf? A men's group? Church? Scuba diving lessons? Race car driving school? Business meet ups? Mountain climbing? Gym? Volunteering? Running? Habitat for Humanity? Organizing a food drive (the holidays are right around the corner)? A father/son retreat? Daddy/daughter date night?
