Ya I got a copy of DR and have been reading it. I'm currently trying to figure out the best way to stand up for myself without coming off as pursuing. It's hard because we have so little contact.
She is actually coming over today, though, to pick up some stuff and asked if we could talk. We both went to IC sessions last week so I assume we'll discuss that.
If/when she asks about mine, I'm thinking about saying something to this effect:
We spent most of the session discussing the past 8 months., and what I realized is that you've been treating me like absolute crap up to and including the way you left. Even after the horrible way you acted, I continued to be loving and caring, because that's what I think a husband is supposed to do. I was true to myself and I am proud of the way I acted.
Thoughts? Up til now I haven't really said anything about how I feel she's been acting.
