Cali.
i love your point of view and how to handle. I guess where g and myself are having problems is actually in the detaching. We are doing things and going out places, yes to have fun, but we are also hoping to break a fog in the w with what we do. Meaning we are still holding on so much, and we need to do these things for ourselves.
I struggle with saying the types of things you say because in the back of my mind i feel i am reassuring her that i am still hoping to reconcile and she knows she still has me.

thoughts?

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15