LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (2)

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Thanks OTW...... Jealousy has been an issue in our M from the very beginning. So I'm not sure if reality is setting in or not. I am hoping it is. That would be great!!!
There was so much jealousy and anger it made it hard for me to work at times. When we met I managed Health Clubs. She commented and accused me of things on a regular basis. I don't mind reassuring her and if she addressed the issue gently it would have been easier. I would have enjoyed it but the jealousy would show it's ugly face out of left field with comments like "I know your f***ing some 20 year old at the gym. You're such a piece of S***! I hate you!" ......it's really hard to be compassionate and reassure someone when they're verbally abusing you.

As far as the money..... I thought everything wouldn't have to be split until the D is final?