i agree you should not be spoke to in a way that is disrespectful and you seem to be doing well with that. I have to tell you though i am a little jealous of how she is so interested in what you are doing and wanting to know everything. She is constantly thinking about you and seems reality is hitting her. As far as the money, you are going to have to split whatever you both have. My w called me one day about rent for a new place and at that point we agreed to split the money we have in the bank and be financially separated at that point.
hope that helps, contact the l and they can help you.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15