First, WW agreed to parenting plan schedule. Last night being her night I started getting ready to go out. She asked "are you leaving? Where are you going? I said " Yes, why?" She said "Why won't you tell me?" I said " It doesn't matter" She said " Are you going to your girlfriends house? it would be nice to know if you have a girlfriend" I said " If I do it's none of your business" She asked to go over the parenting schedule some more. I agreed. She then said " then you go hurry and get out of here and I hope you never come back" I said " see you, I'm not going to tolerate comments like that" and started leaving She said " I hope you get in a car accident."
I arrived home at 1:30 am. She got up and asked to discuss the parenting plan. As we began to discuss it She said "do you wear your ring when you go to your girlfriends house?" as she was trying to see if I had it on. I showed her my ring and asked " why does it matter?........ Nevermind, it doesn't." She said " no, you asked why it matters" I said "it doesn't matter." Topic dropped..... Parenting plan discussion went ok. She made a disrespectful comment one time. I called her on it and told her there's no need for jabs. She said it wasn't and said it doesn't matter how I feel about it. I told her it does matter and if it happens again the conversation is over. She gave me a little more grief about how I am not the boss and I do not get to decide when these conversations are going to happen. I just looked at her and we continued the parenting plan conversation.
She then wanted to talk finances. She said she may decide to move out, She's living check to check, until the D is final all money is martial money and wanted to know how much money I have in my accts because she will need 1st and last months rent. I told her an amount, less than I actually have, and that I'll need to speak to a L.
I don't have to share this money right? I would prefer she "puts on her big girl panties", moves out and struggles.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place