Pink, thanks so much for stopping by, and for your long message of support. I really appreciate it. The whole 'insisting on accounts' thing stayed on my mind. I ended up contacting H again to say I didn't want to cause a big headache for him, or huge legal bills for us both. I said that if there were a quicker or simpler way of providing evidence that there are no assets, he could let me know. I did this before I read Pink's message above!!
He emailed me back today and said he hadn't asked for the accounts as he'd been reluctant to inconvenience his business partner who is busy. He said accounts haven't yet been pulled together for any of the companies, but it did seem that everyone wants documents disclosed and he agreed this was the right thing to do even if it's a pain. He has now asked the guy to do this, but he doesn't know when he will get them.
He said he should have sorted it all out properly a while ago and he apologised and thanked me for my understanding. Even called me by his pet name for me..
So there we are. Looks like accounts are on the way!
Pink, thanks for your thoughts on 'dating' too. I do need to wrap my head around this at some point. Though nice guy at work has been out of the office recently, so no recent contact with him. I'm looking forward to hearing what you have been up to my friend.
Otherwise, all is good and I'm just taking a tea break from WFH today. Take care all xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
